Daoism (Taoism) teaches us that life is constantly changing with the exchange of Yin and Yang. No two moments are exactly the same. The best way to live your life is to adapt to these changes by being flexible and in the moment. This mindset allows you to make important long term decisions and to adapt to sudden changes.
“The sage has no concern for himself, But makes the concerns of others his own. The sage is one with the world, And lives in harmony with it. People turn their eyes and ears to him, And the sage cares for them like his own children.“
Dao De Jing, Chapter 49
Like water
It is important to be flexible and yielding when working towards your goals. Consider the analogy of water. Although water is soft it can be hit and suffer no harm. It can crash as a wave. Water adjusts to its environment and flows around obstacles as it seeks the lowest path.
A person should act in the same way and be willing to yield to solve conflicts. Although goals are important, one should be be flexible in how to reach those goals. To be willing to change those goals if they no longer make sense.
“Nothing in the world is softer and weaker than water. Yet, to attack the hard and strong, Nothing surpasses it. Nothing can take its place.”
Dao De Jing, Chapter 78
Inflexibility equals Death
Daoism teaches that flexibility represents life while rigidness represents death. Consider the analogy of the mighty oak tree and simple bamboo. Although the oak tree is tall and strong, it can be destroyed in a strong storm because it does not bend. On the other hand the bamboo bends with the wind and survives.
“People are born soft and weak. They die hard and stiff. All things such as grass and trees Are soft and supple in life. At their death they are withered and dry. So, the hard and stiff are death’s companions. The soft and weak are life’s companions.“
Dao De Jing, Chapter 76
Conclusion
One should adopt flexibility as the cornerstone of life. It can guide both personal and business decisions while reducing stress and anxiety. People should be pliant and yielding to reach their goals.
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